Somizi Mhlongo Opens Up About His Polygamous Lifestyle and Unconventional Views on Love

South African media personality Somizi Mhlongo has always been open about his personal life, including his relationships, sexuality, and evolving views on love. Known for his vibrant personality and strong advocacy for LGBTQ+ rights, Mhlongo has been a beacon of self-expression and acceptance in South Africa.

In a recent interview with TshisaLIVE, Mhlongo revealed how his perspective on relationships has evolved. Reflecting on his journey, he explained that he identifies as 80% to 90% polygamous and pansexual, embracing an exploration of love that transcends traditional commitment. For Mhlongo, his approach to relationships is about honesty, fluidity, and living life on his own terms, free from societal constraints.

Mhlongo has been candid about his preference for honest relationships rather than “open relationships.” He believes that an honest relationship means being transparent about feelings, even when they change. “An honest relationship will be sometimes I wake up not feeling the same way I felt yesterday about you, and I must be open and honest with it,” he shared. This philosophy underlines his belief in maintaining communication and understanding with his partners.

Polygamy: A Natural Fit for His Lifestyle

As Mhlongo continues to navigate the complexities of his personal life, he revealed that his affinity for polygamy feels like a natural fit. “With age, you realize certain things, you discover yourself. I’ve realized I am possibly 80% – 90% polygamous and I am pansexual. So I’m exploring. I am just living my life. I discovered that later in my life, and I am enjoying it,” Mhlongo explained. This outlook allows him to enjoy relationships without the pressure of traditional expectations.

While he enjoys the freedom that comes with being non-committed, Mhlongo also expressed that marriage is still part of his future plans. However, his view on marriage differs from conventional norms. “I love the concept of marriage. To be honest, I’m more in love with the wedding than the marriage, but I understand the marriage part,” he confessed. Mhlongo’s unconventional take on marriage revolves around the idea of an honest relationship, where both partners agree on the terms before anything happens.

Mhlongo’s openness about his sexuality and personal journey has made him an influential figure in the media. In the mid-1990s, he publicly came out as a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, challenging societal norms at the time. His parents’ unconditional support during his struggles with self-acceptance shaped his journey and provided him with the confidence to become one of the most well-known LGBTQ+ advocates in South Africa.

Despite his publicized past, including his high-profile marriage to Mohale Motaung, Mhlongo has shown resilience and growth, adapting his views on love and relationships. His ability to embrace polygamy, pansexuality, and open communication reflects his evolving mindset and his desire to live authentically.

Somizi Mhlongo’s perspective on love, relationships, and marriage is unconventional yet deeply personal. By prioritizing honesty, self-exploration, and freedom, he continues to challenge traditional norms while promoting self-expression. Mhlongo’s journey serves as an inspiration to others who are navigating their own paths to self-discovery, and his voice remains an important one in the conversation around LGBTQ+ rights and acceptance in South Africa.

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